Choose trust, closeness and commitment · D5.10
Check a shared expectation about contact
You want a clearer arrangement about staying in touch.
Everyday practice
Try these steps
- Name one expectation that may be unclear, such as reply times or making plans.
- Ask what is realistic for each person and state your own needs and limits.
- Agree on a practical arrangement if possible, including how to handle changes or missed contact.
An example
I do not usually read messages at work. If a reply can wait, I’ll answer in the evening.
Reflect
Does the arrangement reduce guesswork without becoming a rule neither person wants?
Next time
Revisit expectations as life changes.
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