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Invite connection and shared time · S14.10

Choose an activity both people want

You would like shared time that fits both preferences.

Everyday practice

Try these steps

  1. Ask each person what kind of activity and level of effort they want.
  2. Choose an option that fits access, time, cost, and the right to decline.
  3. Try it without using participation as proof of care or relationship health.

An example

We choose a simple shared meal instead of an outing neither of us has energy for.

Reflect

Did both people have a real say?

Next time

Repeat or change the activity based on both experiences.

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