Tell a fuller account of an experience · S13.7
Describe what changed after a challenge
You want to reflect on an experience without being told it was good for you.
Everyday practice
Try these steps
- State the challenge and its costs plainly.
- Identify what changed afterward, including skills, limits, losses, support, or no clear change.
- Choose what you want to carry forward and what you would rather not repeat.
An example
I learned that I need clearer deadlines, and the experience was still unnecessarily stressful.
Reflect
Can learning and loss both remain in the account?
Next time
Leave questions unresolved if there is no clear lesson.
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