Ask for feedback and review agreements · S14.16

Review one shared agreement together

You tried a relationship arrangement and want to know whether it worked.

Everyday practice

Try these steps

1. Ask whether both people are willing to review a specific example.
2. Let each describe what helped and what did not, using observable details.
3. Keep, revise, or end the arrangement by agreement, naming any individual boundary that remains.

An example

The reminder messages helped me plan, but the timing did not work for you; we can choose a different cue.

Reflect

Did the review lead to a clear adjustment?

Next time

Review again after meaningful use rather than on a compulsory schedule.