Offer support while keeping limits · D6.8
Imagine a compassionate response with a boundary
You want to respond with care without taking responsibility for everything.
Everyday practice
Try these steps
- Choose an ordinary situation in which someone asks for support.
- Imagine or write one accurate acknowledgment and one offer you can genuinely make.
- Include a limit or referral to other support when the request exceeds your capacity.
An example
That sounds difficult. I can listen for a little while, but I cannot make the decision for you.
Reflect
Does the imagined response respect both people?
Next time
Use the wording only if it fits what the person actually wants.
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