Pause before choosing an action · D9.2
Pause to consider the consequences of a reply
You are about to respond quickly to an ordinary message.
Everyday practice
Try these steps
- Identify what the message actually asks.
- Consider the likely immediate and later consequences of the reply you are preparing.
- Choose to send, revise, ask a question, or wait for needed information.
An example
I check whether the request is urgent before promising to finish today.
Reflect
Did the pause reveal a consequence you had overlooked?
Next time
Use the choice point when relevant rather than treating it as brain-region activation.
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